Working With Ilene
Happiness isn't something you wait for. It's something you create.
You don't need more information. You need someone to understand you and give you a plan. That is the next level of happiness we build together.
Let's talk and see if coaching is for you. →30 Minutes ●
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I know all of this, so why don't I feel any different?
SOUND LIKE YOU?
- You’ve read the books.
- You know about gratitude.
- You’ve tried the journal and the affirmations.
- You’ve tried the “just think positive.”
And underneath it all there's a frustration nobody talks about.
Here's the Shift
- Happiness isn’t information you absorb.
- It’s a habit you build.
- It grows through small, daily practice.
- It gets easier every time you choose it.
Knowing isn't the same as practicing.
That's the part I actually help with.
The Path
Three steps to your next level of happiness.
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Book a Call with Me
A relaxed 30-minute conversation, completely on your terms at no cost. We talk about where you are today, what your “next level” actually looks like, and whether we’re the right fit to build it together.
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We Design Your Path Forward
Together, we take an honest look at what’s quietly draining your energy and blocking your path. Then, we map out a simple, intentional plan designed to unlock your next level of happiness.
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Step Into The Practice
Session by session, we actively build the habits, the mindset, and the tools that bring your next level into focus, making happiness your daily reality, not just an occasional feeling.
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Do you want to fall in love with your life again?
Is This You?
This coaching is for you if…
You don't need to be in crisis. You just need to be ready to say yes to yourself.
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You've built a good life — and something still feels quietly missing.
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You're going through a transition — a relationship, a career, a loss, an empty nest — and you're ready to find your footing again.
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You're done putting everyone else first and finally ready to say yes to yourself.
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You want more joy, more clarity, more intention — and you know that getting there requires more than just hoping things will change.
No matter where you're starting from, your next level of happiness is waiting.
The Happiness Reporter & Movement
Sharing Real Stories of Happiness Around the World
Through The Happiness Reporter and The World Happiness Movement, Ilene connects with people from all walks of life to explore one simple but powerful question:
“What does happiness mean to you?”
These conversations remind us that happiness can be found in everyday moments, human connection, gratitude, purpose, and hope.
Follow along for inspiring interviews, uplifting stories, and meaningful conversations designed to spread more joy throughout the world.
Get Involved
- Follow on Social Media
- Share Your Happiness Story
- Join the Choose Happy Movement
- Attend Upcoming Events & Retreats
Courses, Books & Choose Happy Merch
Tools, Resources & Inspiration to Help You Choose Happy
Explore upcoming resources designed to help you continue your happiness journey beyond coaching sessions.
Coming Soon:
- Women’s Happiness Group Leadership Course
- Happiness Retreat Experiences
- Lessons from Being The Happiness Reporter (Book)
- Guided Happiness Resources & Programs
Choose Happy Collection
Wear and share the message of happiness through uplifting merchandise, including:
- Choose Happy Hats
- T-Shirts
- Rhinestone Choose Happy Pins
- Future Inspirational Products
Because happiness grows when we share it.
Ways to Work Together
Find your next level.
All sessions ● Phone ● Zoom ● In Person
The Happiness
Jumpstart
- A Proven Practice: A clear, active process designed for real and lasting change.
Let's Discuss This Package →
The Happiness
Journey
- Your Complete Life Vision: A complete, immersive process to turn newfound insights into permanent daily habits.
Let's Discuss This Package →
Happiness Group
Coaching
- The Core Practice: The full, active process built into an intimate, small-group setting.
Let's Discuss This Package →
Not sure which one is right for you? Let’s figure it out together →
In Their Words
In their own words.
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Rita P.
Delray Beach, Florida
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I love my experience with Ilene. You have a special knack for finding the point of the matter and addressing it! Kudos! That’s Coaching!
I highly recommend her.
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Sallie
Valley Stream, NY
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My experience with Ilene is a 10, My transformation and positive change is a 10.
I will recommend her highly
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Flo B.
Delray Beach, Florida
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My time with Ilene is great because of how insightful her questions are. I am older than Ilene, and she offers me such wisdom in a sweet way. She has such a great sense of humor, which can ease any anxiety I might have on a particular issue. She doesn’t know it, but I refer to her as beautiful Ilene. She is beautiful inside and out. I am grateful to have connected with her because my life is better with her in it.
Thanks for being my coach.
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Linda B.
New York, New York
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WG
The Wednesday night Women's Group
Delray Beach, Florida
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Ilene is a dynamo! She helped me move from hesitation to focused commitment, giving me the clarity and momentum I needed to take meaningful action in building my business. I now feel much more ready to step fully into what I have to offer, and I’m grateful to have her in my corner.
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Sky S.
Summit New Jersey
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I am so grateful to have Ilene as my life coach.
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E.
Delray Beach, Florida
Episode 12
Finding Joy After Loss — A Conversation with Maya
Episode 11
The Quiet Strength of Starting Over at 60
Episode 10
How to Practice Happiness When Life Falls Apart
Watch & Learn
Happiness, on video
A taste of what I share every week. Watch a few here, then come find the rest on my channel.
The Science & Philosophy of Happiness
What the research and the great thinkers both figured out about being happy, made warm, personal, and actually usable.
Your Dose of Happy
Short and practical. One small thing you can try the moment the video ends.
Good Things to Know
Common questions
Who is this coaching for?
This coaching is for adults around 40 and beyond who are ready to reclaim their joy, whether life has felt flat, a transition has left you unsure, or you simply know there’s more happiness available to you. You don’t need to be in crisis. You just need to be ready to say yes to yourself.
Is coaching the same as therapy?
No. Therapy often looks back to heal the past. Coaching looks forward to build the life you want now. I am not here to diagnose or treat, I am here to partner with you, help you set meaningful goals, and give you the tools and accountability to reach them. If something calls for a therapist, I will always encourage that too.
How do I know which package is right for me?
Call me and we’ll figure it out together. It is simply a warm conversation to see where you are and what you need most.
Do you offer payment plans?
Yes. For the multi-session packages, I am happy to arrange a payment schedule that feels comfortable for you. We can talk it through on our intro call.
What if I miss a group session?
Life happens. If you need to miss a group session, reach out and we’ll find a way to keep you on track, whether that is session notes, a recording where available, or a quick catch up.
Do you offer refunds?
Because coaching is a shared commitment, sessions are generally non-refundable, but your investment always comes with my full care and attention. If something comes up, talk to me, I will always work with you in good faith.
Your First Step
Ready for
something more?
Stop waiting for "someday." Start with a warm, honest conversation. Let's see if we're the right fit.
Let's Start with a Conversation →Complimentary ● 30 Minutes ● Zoom or Phone ● Just a Conversation
The Path
Three steps to getting started
Schedule Your
Complimentary Intro Call
A relaxed 30-minute conversation — completely on your terms. We talk about where you are, where you want to go, and whether we're the right fit for each other.
We Build Your
Happiness Plan
Together we identify what's standing between you and the life you want — and create a clear, personalized roadmap to get you there.
We Go to Work
Together
Session by session, we build the habits, the mindset, and the tools that make happiness your daily reality — not just an occasional feeling.
The International Coaching Federation, the global standard for the profession, defines coaching as “partnering with clients in a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires them to maximize their personal and professional potential.” That is the framework that guides every conversation we’ll have.